alpha: A confident and you are your own. You do your own thing and have complete confidence in everything you do. you have your self doubts, but you don’t let it cloud. Your judgment and logic. You are well liked by almost everyone, and you just have an easy charm and swagger about your presence. other are drawn to your charisma and presence. You enjoy being social and having lots of people around. You are a natural leader. beta: omega: delta: gamma: sigma: |
I have an acquaintance (a father in law of a friend), a male about 60s, married and has 3 grown up children and 2 grandchildren.
He likes to share his life stories with me. The more he shares, he makes me wonder, am I talking to an overly sensitive straight family man or a childish man who has never grown up?! Or maybe he is one example of submissive beta males?! I asked him, “Who has made decision at home?” He said either his wife or his boys. I was testing him once to make a simple decision, he said no. Even he wanted me to make a decision for him. His wife has been refused to talk with him for almost 15 years. His eldest son did slap him on his face and his middle son told him to go away from home and don’t come back again. And what was surprising me is,.. he told me his stories without even seem being feel humiliated at all. Or maybe he enjoyed being humiliated that way (??!) I met his family few times. His wife, I found no indication that she is an alpha type (a kind of gamma type), I have intuition that his wife needs an alpha husband (a husband who leads), she married a beta male instead. (It is said, one who’s afraid of making mistake is the one who doesn’t want to take any responsibility and is the one who will never grown up mentally and will act submissively). 1) When socializing and talking, he often talks in a way that puts other people down 2) Other don’t pay attention, and aren’t interested in listening to her/him 3) Avoid to make a decision, if forced to make a decision, seeks approval 4) The complainer 5) Keep forgetting daily important belongings, such key or wallet |