Seeking attention is something we all do in some form as we like to feel accepted and loved. And when we are not, a subconscious attempt is made to achieve this.

An attention seeker.
People with Attention Seeking behavior like to make the conversation all about them, usually so they feel important and superior to others, as well as having others feel bad for them and give them sympathy for their life.
They may practically beg for compliments, can be deceptive in nature so others compliment them and they get the satisfaction they need.

In regards to mental disorder, yes it is a real disorder, but can be so easily faked.
Everyone who fakes a mental disorder has a motive is an attention seeker.
Usually it is for personal gain, for sympathy from others, to apply for disability, to become well known, or else motives.

Whilst, people who truly struggle with the disorder want nothing more than to be rid of it so they can live a decent and somewhat ‘normal’ life. They may try and hide it from others so they are not judged for having a mental disorder.

Those that fake will mostly like be proud that they have it and talk about it all the time to anyone.

Watch out for people who blame everything on their illness and make excuses.
Someone can do something they know isn’t right and say, “Oh, that was just my disorder acting up.”
That’s an excuse. They could use that to their advantage.
There is no need for anyone to prove themselves, especially when it comes to mental disorder.

Complaining & Bragging

Watch out for people who are dramatic and cry, complain, and brag about how much their life sucks.
Who wants to listen to how miserable your life is?
Those people are over-the-top to get attention, complaining about having a bad day, hurting themselves and showing the result for the world to see so others feel bad for them.
Crying, quite literally, for attention. Attention Seeking, it’s quite easy to spot a fake cry, but not when you become emotionally attached to the individual.
These attention seeker people are subliminally making us feel bad for them, so we are empathetic to their suffering.
In fact, they are very tricky and deceptive and many people cannot catch on to their game.

They need to go through a lot of personal growth to be able to be happy with themselves so they do not involve the lives of others in their affairs.
For anyone who does this, the best thing to do is to be grateful for what you do have in your life.
There are so many people who are much worse off than you.
You could be worse off than you are right now. So, see the positive of what you have in your life.

WHAT ARE PEDOPHILES?
Pedophiles are people who feel themselves primarily attracted to children, including in a sexual sense.
That attraction to children is experienced as such an important value, that they consider it as a very essential part of who they are. If they weren’t allowed to have these feelings they wouldn’t be the people they are.

Pedophilia can be characterized as either exclusive or non-exclusive.
Exclusive pedophiles are attracted only to children. They show no interest in sexual partners who are not prepubescent children.
Non-exclusive pedophiles are attracted to both adults and children.

A large percentage of male pedophiles are homosexual or bisexual in orientation to children, meaning they are attracted to male children or both male and female children and most pedophiles are men; the condition is rare in women.
The typical pedophile is unable to find satisfaction in an adult sexual relationship and may have low self-esteem.

Is There a Cure?
Pedophilia, like many types of disturbances or disorders, does not have a complete cure. The sexual urges associated with pedophilia may never permanently disappear, and a person’s sexual preference and orientation can be difficult to completely re-orient.

My opinion:
I don’t get really shocked when reading pervert news about Pedophilic acts of religion’s leaders, either in Judaism, or Catholic & Christian or Islam. They are just ordinary humans, some of them might suffer from psychiatric disorders and unable to control their basic sexual instinct, and they made themselves hidden behind their religious title either as priests/pastors, archbishop, rabbi, ayatollah, imam. etc.
Yes of course, they are such..

So it’s not about religion to be judged, it’s just about immoral & inappropriate individual acts of some religions’ leaders.

Monophobia

I’ve been getting involved by some Monophobia people in real life and most of them are control freak ones too. Of course, they denied they have fear of being all alone, even in a short time. The more they denied, the more I enjoy to ‘punish’ them. Just if they admit it and tell me the truth, I will even care.

Fear of Being Alone Phobia – Monophobia is the extreme or abnormal fear of being along. Many people as well as animals are known to suffer from Monophobia and it is not an easy fear to overcome.
Monophobia is also known by other names such as Isolaphobia or Autophobia. It is characterized by extreme insecurity, anxiety and depression when the individual suffering has to be alone, even for short duration. As a result, s/he refuses to sleep, eat or even go to the bathroom alone.

One with monophobia experiences the anxiety of a panic attack and may also have obsessional and depressive symptoms.
Symptoms typically include shortness of breath, rapid breathing, irregular heartbeat, sweating, nausea, and overall feelings of dread, although everyone experiences being alone fear in their own way and may have different symptoms.

The fear of being alone can be caused by by many different things. Maybe you were, or felt, abandoned at some time in life and came to associate being alone with being unloved or neglected. A fear of being alone can be directly related to agoraphobia which tends to reduce self-confidence and the belief that activities can be carried out alone. It can be a short step to a belief that being alone at all is not safe.

A person suffering from monophobia might believe that he or she will die or collapse or do something terrible when panic strikes and this too might make having a trustworthy person present seem as if it is essential.

Understanding BDSM

Sadism is the sexual pleasure or gratification in the infliction of pain and suffering upon another person.

The counterpart of sadism is masochism, the sexual pleasure or gratification of having pain or suffering inflicted upon the self, often consisting of sexual fantasies or urges for being beaten, humiliated, bound, tortured, or otherwise made to suffer, either as an enhancement to or a substitute for sexual pleasure.

Sadists enjoy inflicting pain whether or not it is sexual in nature.
Masochists enjoy receiving pain, which, again, may or may not be sexual.

Dominance and submission (D/s) is a way of looking the the sadistic-masochistic distinction, a power dynamic rather than a set of acts.

Not all masochists are submissive, and not all submissives enjoy pain.
Not all sadists are dominant, and not all who enjoy dominating others are sadists.

There is frequently a strong emotional aspect to the sexual desires, taking the form of a need for domination (to control another) or submission (the desire or to be controlled) as opposed to a simple desire for pain (which is technically known as algolagnia).
The words sadistic and masochistic are now commonly used to describe personality traits in an emotional, rather than sexual sense. Sadism involves causing physical or psychological pain or suffering to another person.

It is certainly considered a [ disorder ] when it [ causes unhappiness ] to the person with it, [ causes problems ] with work, social setting, or family, or when there is [ potential danger ] to another individual.

Like some masochists, some sadists require the pain or humiliation in order to function sexually. Others may engage in more typical sexual activities at some times and sadistic activities at other times.
Sadists often seek out masochists as sexual partners. The sexual arousal in sadism is directly related to the suffering of the other person.
Some acts involve actual physical violence. Other acts involve domination, such as making the other person crawl or keeping him or her in a cage.

Sadism and masochism, often interrelated (one person obtaining sadistic pleasure by inflicting pain or suffering on another person who thereby obtains masochistic pleasure), are collectively known as S&M or sadomasochism.

BDSM is a short-hand acronym for many subdivisions of the culture:

[ B&D ] Bondage & Discipline
[ D&S ] Domination & Submission
[ S&M ] Sadism & Masochism.

The term BDSM describes the quite common activities between consenting adults that contain sadistic & masochistic elements. Many behaviors such as erotic spanking, tickling and love-bites that many people think of only as “rough” sex also contain elements of sado-masochism.